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Myth No. 3: "Annulments can be bought"
Time and money are relentlessly present to legal process. Like the ugly
stepsisters, disproportionately proportioned and jealous of rivals, they devour an attention, which can,
and often does, leave plaintiffs as neglected and penniless as Cinderella. Their role seems particularly
cruel in an annulment process if they seem to cast undue burdens on the beleaguered victim.
Whatever legends circulate on the sidewalks of New York or in the readers' columns of
the city's tabloids, no resident of the Brooklyn diocese who undertakes annulment proceedings here is
expected to pay all the expenses. What costs does the Tribunal actually incur? Cases average about
fifteen hundred dollars. The Brooklyn diocese, embracing the populace of Kings and
Queens counties,
has for years held the petitioner's portion to roughly two thirds of the cost. Since the diocesan bishop,
by canon law, must maintain a working tribunal, the diocese picks up the balance.
The annulment process cannot lawfully be denied to someone
simply
because he or she cannot afford it. In the Brooklyn diocese, any petitioner is free to discuss his or
her financial situation confidentially at any stage of the process. Payments may be in installments.
Financial
accommodation is available commensurate with a person's financial circumstances, as disclosed and documented,
much like on a college loan application. No hidden charges are added to the amount agreed upon.
Annulments are not for sale. No one is treated more or less fairly based on who
they are or what they can afford to pay, for payment secures only the process, not a favored
or scheduled
outcome. Myths about annulments "bought" or expedited for exorbitant fees
deserve to be retired, if only because they may discourage those most in need of
the process.
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